The issue is not raw volume but who loses rhythm first
When service areas are sparse, many people instinctively think the answer is simply to drink less.
For seniors and children, the deeper problem is often that hydration and toilet timing are not being planned together.
Before the long segment, complete a normal hydration-and-toilet cycle properly
If the group enters the long stretch already thirsty and not fully reset, the day often becomes harder later.
Finishing a proper refill and toilet stop at an easy node is usually steadier than trying to suppress the need once the road is difficult.
Seniors and children usually do better with smaller steady sips while coffee should follow the window
Seniors and children are often hurt most by either overdrinking at once or underdrinking for too long.
Coffee works better when placed in a segment where the next toilet opportunity is still known, not just as the hardest stop-sparse section begins.
What matters most is avoiding the 'big drink, then hardest road' sequence
When the whole vehicle stacks heavy hydration and coffee together just before the least manageable section, pressure arrives early and all at once.
Separating those decisions in advance is usually far more useful than improvising later.